This post matches it's title to a T. At some point in all of our lives we do this, more than once actually, but why? Maybe you're absorbed in your looks, its are drained from children or work. Who knows? your life is your own. I've never really had given a thought about self-pity until here recently and I've opened my eyes and noticed changes not only to myself but in myself. I do find myself loathing and wallowing with pity. But to make a change you have to put the work it'snot going to get better without the added effort. I've had to fight my inner being here recently to realise that my change will have to wait but it needs to be made to better my life and my childern. So I say again maybe it's work, class, your kids, money or image. Don't wallow after all we are all suppose to love ourselfs for who we are but what they don't tell you is to love yourself in a healthy way. body shaming has always been around and will continue to be because th...