What's the big deal?

As humans we are biologically programmed to believe that our way maybe the best way 7/10 times we refuse others idea or adopt others thoughts as our own claiming that we don't know what the big deal Is. A suggestion offers help so why does it matter.
We often fail to make the connection that what we have done hurts others around us by failing to acknowledge their contributions as the only end that we can picture is the one where were on top.
You are thinking about this pretty deeply now huh? Have even caught yourself in plenty of instances where this is true for you.

Don't feel bad it happens and happens so much that it goes unnoticed. Wondering why? Let's start with the fast paced life that we all live. Routine and on the go, never stopping and when we do we wonder why the hours seem like minutes and the days go by unnoticed. We've adopted the notion that to live is to work and just the thought the value of time and the luxury of relaxation to go unused, unnoticed and washed away from our lives. Sure we find time in our lives to experience joyful days and once in a lifetime events but the routine of life is just that. After the happy age of 18 the expectations begin, work, home, wife/husband, kids. its an unbroken cycle of the perfect life.

What's the big deal? Why are we limited by how others view us and the category that we are placed in. I came into adulthood ass backward and working my way up. Kudos for the back ass way of doing things. raising kids young has matured my mind way beyond my years. That I am thankful for, instead of partying in my twenties, responsibility and a fulfilling life is what I look forward to. Life is what you make it so What's the big deal, does not matter where your life truly started only matters where you decide to take it.
I've always been told that there are two roads that you can take, the one that you pave and the one that others follow down, Are you a follower or a creator. Be a creator, who cares if you don't fit the mold, or hang with the cool kids. Your cool to someone and that's what matters. I've always strong;y believed that as creators we are created to show off the uniqueness because no two people think completely the same there is some difference in how we approach things. Take it bust the idea open and run with it, expand your mind. Don't keep the 'impossible" boxed up where no one can experience you fully..

What's the big deal with being you? even if that means cutting someone off to express your thoughts.

Thank you,
Maddie

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